SCG_ErwinP Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 Hello fellows! I want to get engaged to my girlfriend but I have no idea how and what to do... So, i would like tips about it. Thank you all! 2 1
Thad Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 OMG... don't expect such advice here! But my suggestion is … Run... run now.! Run fast and don't look back. ? But that's just me. 5 1
DD_Arthur Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 How old are you Erwin and what part of the world do you call home?
SCG_ErwinP Posted April 8, 2019 Author Posted April 8, 2019 (edited) On 4/8/2019 at 2:07 PM, DD_Arthur said: How old are you Erwin and what part of the world do you call home? I'm 32. Edited April 10, 2019 by SCG_ErwinP
THERION Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 Try to be romantic and use your imagination... BUT DO NOT: - copy others or other's attempts - no fake accidents or other stupid dramatic situations, like some retards did in the past Just think about your girlfriend - you know her best, so you might know what she likes and touches her. And one last thing: "Less is more" 2 2
SCG_ErwinP Posted April 8, 2019 Author Posted April 8, 2019 17 minutes ago, -IRRE-Therion said: no fake accidents or other stupid dramatic situations, I'm not like this. 19 minutes ago, -IRRE-Therion said: Just think about your girlfriend - you know her best, so you might know what she likes and touches her. And one last thing: "Less is more" Thanks!
Trooper117 Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 If you need tips you are far too young to be even thinking about it... 1
BOO Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 Show her the back of your head and ask if she likes it. If she does then you should be good to carry on simming. 3
Trooper117 Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 1 hour ago, SCG_BOO said: Show her the back of your head and ask if she likes it. If she does then you should be good to carry on simming. lol... classic!
Legioneod Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 (edited) 5 hours ago, SCG_ErwinP said: Hello fellows! I want to get engaged to my girlfriend but I have no idea how and what to do... So, i would like tips about it. Thank you all! Step 1: Think about your decision Step 2: Buy a ring if you are still serious Step 3: DO NOT ASK IN PUBLIC. If you are going to ask in public, don't do it in a dang mall or any type of store. Bring her to a romantic place (Super fancy restaurant, picnic in nature, etc. basically a place with very few people) Step 4: Get down on a knee Step 5: Take her hand and stare deeply into her eyes (for romantic effect) Step 6: Pop the question and place the ring on her finger Step 7: Hope she says yes. (all the while thinking of the shame and embarrassment you will feel if she says no) Step 8: In the event he says yes, think about the decision you just made and how deeply it will affect your life. Hope it all goes well. In all seriousness though, think about your decision and if you really want to be with this girl forever. Marriage is all about commitment, if you or her aint committed then it will not last, or you'll have a very hard time finding a reason to stay together. There will be times where you may not feel love for eachother or you wonder why you got married, just remember your vows and the commitment you made to each other and hopefully you will do fine. Edited April 8, 2019 by Legioneod 1 3
JG7_X-Man Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 7 hours ago, SCG_ErwinP said: Hello fellows! I want to get engaged to my girlfriend but I have no idea how and what to do... So, i would like tips about it. Thank you all! Dude - Marriage is awesome! You just have to make sure the two of you are aligned on the major issues. Then when the time comes (...which it will) be flexible. That is the the same way you propose - just be you, which will make it special. I like everything Legioneod said. With that #7, ummm you have to know bro that she will say yes. "remember, you both have to be aligned on the major issues... this is your 1st major issue" 1 2
Legioneod Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 2 minutes ago, JG7_X-Man said: Dude - Marriage is awesome! You just have to make sure the two of you are aligned on the major issues. Then when the time comes (...which it will) be flexible. That is the the same way you propose - just be you, which will make it special. I like everything Legioneod said. With that #7, ummm you have to know bro that she will say yes. "remember, you both have to be aligned on the major issues... this is your 1st major issue" Yep made that list mostly as a joke but there are some points that hold true. To OP. Of course, you should know if she'll say yes and it's always ok to talk to her about it. I know many guys want to have this grand gesture when proposing and want it to be a surprise, but there is nothing wrong with talking it out with your significant other before asking. Marriage is a great thing and I'm happy that you found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, I hope it all goes well with you. Good luck, God bless.
SCG_ErwinP Posted April 9, 2019 Author Posted April 9, 2019 Thank you all guys! 11 minutes ago, Legioneod said: Yep made that list mostly as a joke but there are some points that hold true. To OP. Of course, you should know if she'll say yes and it's always ok to talk to her about it. I know many guys want to have this grand gesture when proposing and want it to be a surprise, but there is nothing wrong with talking it out with your significant other before asking. Marriage is a great thing and I'm happy that you found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, I hope it all goes well with you. Good luck, God bless.
JG7_X-Man Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 44 minutes ago, SCG_ErwinP said: Thank you all guys! No one has it figured out! However you are definitely on the right path - he who does not know asks! I wish I had learned that shit 30 yrs ago LOL You got this E! God bless you guys and wish you the best. Oh! here is what I told my wife years ago. "I can spend $5K a year at the golf course/strip club or at home on my gaming rig - you decide sweetheart"
Feathered_IV Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 Build a sim-pit in the middle of the loungeroom and play Il-2 for six to eight hours a day in your underwear. Preferably with VR goggles on. If after six months you remove the goggles and she is still there, ask her to marry you. Most importantly though, make sure you have a ring ready BEFORE you ask. I say that as a gold & silversmith who has been dealing with this stuff daily for 25+ years.
THERION Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 4 hours ago, JG7_X-Man said: Oh! here is what I told my wife years ago. "I can spend $5K a year at the golf course/strip club or at home on my gaming rig - you decide sweetheart" Well, this might be your very last question in your life - depending on her hobbies she might have too, like golf or hunting or baseball or firearms...
ITAF_Rani Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 She will put all your IL2 stuff in the garbage.... Good luck !! 1
SCG_ErwinP Posted April 9, 2019 Author Posted April 9, 2019 1 hour ago, ITAF_Rani said: She will put all your IL2 stuff in the garbage.... She gifted me with Bodenplatte Pre Order I think she loves me 3 1
THERION Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 2 hours ago, SCG_ErwinP said: She gifted me with Bodenplatte Pre Order I think she loves me What? She really gifted you this - then it's TRUE LOVE, mate! 1 1
Rolling_Thunder Posted April 10, 2019 Posted April 10, 2019 Yeah, they all give you what you want right up to the point you say "I do" then it's game over man, game over. 1
Trooper117 Posted April 10, 2019 Posted April 10, 2019 One other thing to consider... after that ring goes on their finger, they somehow morph into a fat over weight authoritarian that is never wrong! 2
SCG_ErwinP Posted April 10, 2019 Author Posted April 10, 2019 37 minutes ago, Trooper117 said: One other thing to consider... after that ring goes on their finger, they somehow morph into a fat over weight authoritarian that is never wrong!
Herne Posted April 10, 2019 Posted April 10, 2019 How much do you love IL2 ? If she's the jealous type she may force you to choose lol
SCG_ErwinP Posted April 10, 2019 Author Posted April 10, 2019 2 minutes ago, =11=Herne said: How much do you love IL2 ? If she's the jealous type she may force you to choose lol I hope that she don't do it.
THERION Posted April 10, 2019 Posted April 10, 2019 1 minute ago, =11=Herne said: How much do you love IL2 ? If she's the jealous type she may force you to choose lol Well, this won't be in his case, as she gifted him a module of IL2. And believe me, most women prefer their husbands sitting at home in a virtual cockpit, living, fighting and dying as air war heroes, instead of going out with other blokes, only to get trunk, doing embarrassing stupid things and look after other girls.... But of course, flight time is always and only AFTER he has done his homework like taking out the garbage, do the gardening and fixing all the things that need being fixed - so don't dream too much, guys. 1 1
DD_Arthur Posted April 12, 2019 Posted April 12, 2019 On 4/10/2019 at 11:18 AM, Trooper117 said: One other thing to consider... after that ring goes on their finger, they somehow morph into a fat over weight authoritarian that is never wrong! Lol, yeah watch out for that morphing ability!!
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