JG51Molders, you already mentioned the solution to your problem - go fly elsewhere. Nobody is entitled to fly on TAW, it is just an opportunity and not an inalienable right.
Being civil in your communication with others has nothing to do with being "politically correct", it is common courtesy.
If I were the admin of TAW, I'd never change the rules because someone tried to aggressively bully me into submission. Good luck with your conflict resolution skills.
Now I will "shut my hole", take my opinion to "the peanut gallery" and go flying. I hope you will, too.